Saturday, October 6, 2018

Because Women Needs Our Understanding


Erick S. Gray “Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit!”



Since the dawn of the universe, God created Adam and Eve. God created them as human and as a lover. As a human they must evolve, explore the earth, and pray to God. As a lover they meant to be together.Adam and Eve fated to be together whatever the odds.  When God ordered them to go to the earth for the first time. They got seperated, so far away. Still because their love is strong they still able to meet again after 40 years wondering the virgin earth in order to meet again.  This is a proof why love meant to be strong. However speaking of love, as a man sometimes we can't understand women. Because they are special than us. They love to speak more than us, more emotional than us, and oftenly used the right side of the brain to think.

When men oftenly think based on logic, women tend to think using emotion  than using logical thinking.  This causing women oftenly create some kind of code when men asked them a question. A simple question really, but sometimes they put an emotions and the contrary gesture towards the answer. Such as "Are you okay?." Then she answered "I am fine" then she showing a significant contrary gesture such as an angry face and as a man autamatically we know that she is not okay. How about men? Men oftenly go straight forward to the answer and showing a straight gesture for it such as yeah they will answer "i am fine" and showing a straight gesture as it. Another example is when women love to think emotionally is when women meet a beggar. They will automatically give them some money because of pitiness, they don't think whether the beggar is really need the money or they just simply too lazy to work?. On the contrary men will reluctanly give them money because they logically think that this beggar maybe just someone who is too lazy to work. Another example is when you decided to ask your love one out to get some dinner then you asked "What food do you want to eat now?." then she will say "Whatever." Then you decided to take her to your favorite restaurant then she does not want to eat at that restaurant. Well she said whatever but in truth is not a whatever, it's a code that we must crack it and figure it out ourself and she will not give you the key answer straightly
The truth behind women emotional thingking is because they tend to use the right side of their brain. As stated by Rebecca Shambaugh "Researchers at Yale determined back in the nineties that men’s tendency is to primarily use the left side of their brain, while women generally shift back and forth, drawing on both the left and right sides. In practice, this means that men are more likely to have a fact- and logic-based leadership style, while women are more likely to see the big-picture, have stronger emotions, and rely on their intuition for decision-making."   Well this clearly stated how women act with such emotional act.
In the end, as a men as a gentlemen we must know that we need to understand women as they want us to understand them. Women is special,


“Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit!.”― Erick S. Gray


So men, please understand your woman, she will love you forever if you treated her right. Try to understand them because they want us to understand them. We could not simply make them follow us, we need to passionately persuade them, use your emotions to take care of her, cast aside your logic when you want to love someone.

Remember

"A true gentleman, never leaves his lady." -Alessandro Del Pierro-.


References
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/different-brains-differen_b_9480952
https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/209983-whatever-you-give-a-woman-she-will-make-greater-if

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